I Love Dry January

In my last post our immature, childish Jim was let loose and ranted on about how Dry January spoilt his sense of being special. Well it’s time for grown up Jim to redress the balance.

So here goes, Dry January is a great idea.Simple.

It was interesting that some USA bloggers were unfamiliar with the concept. Over here in the UK we have had to put up with numerous American imports; trick or treat, line dancing, McDonalds and that great celebration of crass materialism, Black Friday. Thanks a lot.

Well in return I think the US should import Dry January. It’s a simple concept. During January, when typically very little happens, quite a few people try going a whole month without drinking alcohol. It’s a noble concept that harms no one and eases the pressure on A-and E departments, relationships and policing.

Some people say it’s tokenism and I get that. Many who start crack after a few days but a significant number stay the course. From that experience some cut back on their overall alcohol consumption whilst others extend the experience into other dry periods during the year. 

For me Dry January was my first tentative step towards giving up alcohol let’s say for the foreseeable future.  I first tried it about 6 years ago and although I did manage the whole month, it was tough.  It really struck me that I had never gone so long without a drink since my late teens; even in January there were so many events and encounters that involved alcohol.  I experienced cravings, feelings of denial, but also towards the end of the month better sleep, loss of weight and it became clear to me that alcohol or the absence of it were significant issues.

The first month of stopping drinking is always tough so the Dry January experience really does highlight how we have become physically, socially, emotionally and psychologically dependent on this drug alcohol.

Dry January helped me see this and gave me that distance from alcohol which aids reappraisal.  More, less successful Dry Januarys followed and led to alcohol free days in the week and ultimately to a more alcohol free months at different points in the year. Going back to the alcohol always resulted in the pattern of excessive drinking returning within days and so finally I arrived at deciding it had to go completely.  That was 5 months ago and there’s no doubt, the first month was the toughest.  

Dry January gave me the perspective and courage to go long term alcohol free and I’m now in that place where I don’t feel I’m being denied or missing something, quite the opposite.  I feel I have discovered a better way of being by being AF. It’s healthier, liberating and life enhancing.  There are some downsides at times sure but I am in no doubt whatsoever that going from Dry January to Dry Life was one of the best decisions I have made. So shut it Jim junior, Dry January is cool or as the Spanish say, “Chula.”  

For the Americans reading this take Dry January, promote it and make it your own and please, please, please take back Black Friday and bin it.

Jim x

 

14 thoughts on “I Love Dry January

  1. clairei47

    Ah let childish immature Jim out every now and then, he’s a hoot! I really liked this post. It reinforced for me the reasons I’m living a dry life. I rarely succeeded at dry Jan. let’s be honest, I rarely succeeded at dry Monday! But I have achieved almost 3 months AF. Why? Because once I start drinking again I can’t stop. In fact I drink more than before. So it needs to be permanent. What’s wrong with Black Friday btw??
    Claire xx

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    1. Jim Simmonds Post author

      Childish Jim has been sent to his room- he’s a nightmare.😉
      As for Black Friday well it’s an unabashed celebration of mass consumerism which is obscene and repugnant. Unfortunately childish Jim keeps buying guitars on Black Friday- he’s weak! Jim x

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    2. msnewleaf

      I’m afraid if you don’t know what’s wrong with Black Friday, you guys are doing it wrong! Massive crowds stampeding each other to get a good deal – good times! What better way to prepare to celebrate the birth of the baby Jesus? Black Friday is the worst.

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  2. Amy Helina

    I don’t like Black Friday! I never have, and I don’t believe I ever will partake in Black Friday shopping. At the most, I might partake in “Cyber Monday” which has now transformed into Cyber Week. It’s ridiculous to me that people literally shoot people in order to get a great deal on an item they probably don’t even need in the first place! What good that “great deal” does you when you’re in prison!! I agree with Claire, childish Jim was definitely a hoot! We all have those moments. 🙂

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    1. Jim Simmonds Post author

      It did start like that over here, but we decided it’s very unBritish to stampede so we now usually spend millions of pounds fattening up the bloated Amazon cow buying shit we don’t need. Ah the spirit of Christmas (is it too early to mention the C word.)

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  3. nomorebeer2019

    LOL. Qué chula tu post! Siempre me pongo riendo cuando te leo 🙂 Viva Jim Señor el Soberista (Jim Junior puede descansar) y también viva el Enero Seco (lol no idea if that’s what it’s called) !!! Ahora me voy ! Hasta luegoooooo xxx Anne

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    1. Jim Simmonds Post author

      Muchas gracias Anne! Forgive me if I don’t reply in Spanish, although loved reading your comment. It’s good practise for me! Yes I think Jim Junior can have a long rest, I dread to think what he’ll be like when he hits the teenage years! 😉 Andele Chica! Disfruta tu dia! Jim x

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  4. gr8ful_collette

    As an American who does not participate in Black Friday, I want to say that I think childish Jim is funny and the more mature version is full of wise observations. Thanks to you both! ☺️

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